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Quotes that Transform Shyness

"Everyone is shy --- it is the inborn modesty that makes us able to live in harmony with other creatures and our fellows.  Achievement comes not by denying shyness but, occasionally, by setting it aside and letting pride and perspiration come first."

Children Learn What They Live

    ...

    If children live with ridicule,
    They learn to be shy.

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    If children live with encouragement,
    They learn confidence.

    ...

    If children live with approval,
    They learn to like themselves.

    ...

     "Children Learn What They Live" by Dorothy Law Nolte


    Keep your thoughts positive,
    Because your thoughts become your words.

    Keep your words positive,
    Because your words become your behaviors.

    Keep your behaviors positive,
    Because your behaviors become your habits.

    Keep your habits positive,
    Because your habits become your values.

    Keep your values positive,
    Because your values become your destiny.

    ~ Ghandi ~

    (kindly posted on the Center for HSP message board)


 Art of Living

    Once in a while I´ll see somebody
    About to make the same mistakes as me.
    So I´ll try to do something good and save them a little grief.

    I´ll say hey you, get away from that thing
    It´s about as hot as hell!
    They´ll smile and thank me very much an then
    Go and touch it for themselves.

    This is the art of living, this is the art of taking and giving.

    Don´t tell me what to do I´ll muddle my way thru
    Don´t make excuses for me.
    I´ll take what´s coming my way and be what I will be.
    It´s not that I don´t appreciate the thought for heaven´s sake.
    But I won´t lie in any bed I cannot make.

    This is the art of living, this is the art of taking and giving.

    Now don´t go drawing any lines on the ground.
    Somebody always comes along who won´t walk around.
    Some are going to lose yeah and some are going to win.
    But everyone get caught in.

    The art of living.

"Art of Living" by The Boomers YYZ 1993


"What we think and feel about ourselves, our self-esteem, influences our shyness and may come from observing our own behavior. In any case, adopting a hopeful, I-can-change-my-social-behavior-way of thinking is important, then DO SOMETHING, like smiling and greeting people, making small talk, give a compliment, etc. (Glass & Shea, 1986). "

"Shop for security over happiness and we buy it at that price."

"All we see of someone at any moment is a snapshot of their life, there in riches or poverty, in joy or despair.  Snapshots don´t show the million decisions that led to that moment."

    Richard Bach “Running from Safety”


    As my grandfather once said, "The secret of life is learning to make a fool of yourself gracefully."

"The universe is built to respond to our consciousness, but it will give back to us only the level of quality we put into it. Therefore, the process of discovering who we are and what we are here to do and of learning to follow the mysterious coincidences that can guide us is dependent, to a great extent, on our ability to stay positive and to find a silver lining in all events."


    James Redfield "The Celestine Vision"


    I do my thing and you do your thing
    I am not in this world to live up to your expectations
    And you are not in this world to live up to mine
    You are you and I am I
    And if by chance we find each other
    It is beautiful

    Frederick Perls´ Gestalt prayer


    Intimacy is risking
    sharing your rejected self with another.

    No risk, no intimacy.

    from the booklet "Relationship: Examinations from the Relationships Reseach Institute"
    1496 Mark West Springs Road
    Santa Rosa, CA 95404


"When you're worried, tell yourself the truth: Shyness is a strength to build on, not a character flaw to be stamped out."


                   "...being shy means being nervous or worried about what other people are thinking of you."

"… is shy because he really is a social person …"

"Quietness and shyness were somewhat virtues and not necessarily something to counteract or battle against."

"As I search for crucial errors my parents may have made, there is only one possible thing that stands out; that they allowed me to use bashfulness as a tool to get my way."  Bampa


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